Self-Love + The Reality of Settling, Stagnation, or Giving Up

Over the past couple of days, I’ve been getting this message loud and clear: pare down and get to the technical, nitty gritty, applicable in REAL LIFE implications of self-love. I’ve had a lot of people asking me for clarity around this issue: If I love myself, utterly and unconditionally, am I giving up? Does … Read more

The Power in Imperfection

You will not always get it right. Sometimes you will have a losing streak miles wide, and feels like there is no end in sight. Yes, there are people who will tell you to redefined what a losing streak means for you, wrapping it up in pretty bows and exclamations of, Oh GOODIE, a teachable … Read more

On Loving What Is

After yesterday’s post about grieving your body fantasy, I spent the whole day thinking about what I was left with.  For example, you decide to let go of the person that you spent twenty-thirty-forty-some-odd years wishing desperately that you could become, what do you do next? Though it was well received by you guys (THANK … Read more

Grieving the Loss of Your Body Fantasy

I am going to assume that I was not the only little kid, teenager, or, adult to fantasize about what it would be like to live in a body that wasn’t the one that I was living in. The body that I imagined myself in was effortlessly thin. She was so gorgeous, and her skin … Read more