You matter.

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It’s time to stop pretending you can get by without taking care of yourself.

I could feel my resentment growing as we made our schedule for the week. My partner outlined her needs - the hours of work, the classes at the gym, the commitments that were important to her.

It felt like there was one tiny scrap of time between us and she was grabbing it.

I thought: Why are the things you want to do non-negotiable? What about MY things? What about my needs?

When had I stopped mattering?

Why was I so quick to make myself small in order to take care of everyone else? Why did I believe that asking for help made me a burden, weak, and/or unlovable?

I wanted to be angry at her, but really I was angry at myself.

The truth was, I hadn't been safeguarding my time or prioritizing my care. I hadn't respected my limits or set boundaries to protect my energy. I hadn't advocated for my needs.

I hadn't even allowed myself to acknowledge that I had needs. 

Somewhere along the way, I had abandoned myself.

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What if you were able to trust yourself to know exactly what you need & felt encouraged to meet those needs on a consistent basis?

What if you were able to rest and not feel guilty?

What if you were able to stop worrying about what anyone else might think?

What if you were able to definitively know that you are good enough?

What if you were able to say no when you wanted (and needed) to say no?

Here's what I know: You are a brilliant, deeply capable human being. You easily pay attention to, keep track of, and meet the needs of the humans in your life on a daily basis.

You know how your boss likes their coffee and when.

You can tell how your sister is feeling the minute she walks through the door.

You intuitively anticipate your partner’s needs without them uttering a word.

Yet, your needs go unacknowledged and unmet. It's time to change that.

Caring for yourself isn't optional. It’s essential.

You are still reading because you want more than the scraps you have been subsisting on.

You are here because you are ready to feel seen, heard, and honored.

Tending to your needs is about building a relationship with yourself grounded in devotion and self-trust. 

It is about fortifying your ultimate sovereignty over your choices by reminding yourself of your inherent worthiness and prioritizing your pleasure.

It is about pouring yourself a glass of water AND unhooking from the belief systems and cultural stories that keep you striving to earn your worth.

It is about nurturing the habits that nourish you AND receiving your own care as a daily reminder that you matter.

It is about feeling supported, and you will be -- by yourself.


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Praise for Tend

Tend was life-changing.

It was an awakening, an emergence, a new beginning. I honestly never thought I would ever truly feel love for myself, let alone comfortable in my skin. With Mara, the work is not an endless to-do list, or talk with no explanation. Mara warmly and kindly guides you through a process of discovery and unearthing that feels as natural as breathing.
- Sara M.

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Tend is a 9-month group coaching circle for women, femmes, and non-binary folks who are ready to meet their needs with clarity and consistency.

This a community for those of us who can’t seem to stop putting everyone else’s needs ahead of our own.

During our time together you will receive & cultivate:

  • body-based practices & tangible tools
  • powerful energetic support to embolden you to take up more space in the world around you
  • a plan for real (bullshit-free) self-care rooted in fierce respect & gentle boundaries that protect not only your physical body but your emotional, mental & spiritual bodies as well
  • daily coaching to help you nourish your growth, remind you of who you are & cheer you on

Tend combines transformative teachings with an online community of humans who are doing the work alongside you.

The content has been curated to tend to the inner and outer work of developing a positive, trustworthy, and powerful relationship with yourself.

By pairing practical tools with deeply nourishing energy work, Tend creates a brave environment for you to experience caring for yourself in a way that you never thought possible before.

When you are wholly supported, you are deeply rooted and confident in your ability to take care of yourself no matter what situation or circumstance you find yourself in.

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Praise for Tend

GUUUURL, I am so proud of myself and everything I’ve accomplished since Tend started. You're wise, understanding, compassionate, human, and so, so wonderful. I love the kindred spirits that you attract, and how evident your love for all of us is. Tend was soothing, affirming, and fulfilling. It's so worth it! -Maggie M.

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Tend is for you, if..

You feel selfish asking for what you need and want.

You (still) don’t have a sustainable plan for taking care of yourself, no matter how many e-courses you’ve taken, books you’ve read, or quick fixes you’ve tried.

You are tired of waiting for the people in your life to magically know what you need.

You are ready to receive from yourself more of the energy, time, attention, understanding, and love that you so readily give to others.

You are worried that it is ridiculous to waste time, energy, or money on problems that you are probably imagining or blowing way out of proportion.

(It isn't and you aren’t.)

Early bird pricing available through Monday, 9/16

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Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

tend + 1:1 support

Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

Plus 9 60-minute intuitive coaching sessions

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When you sign up, you will receive...

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  • 9 modules with weekly content
  • Monthly energy work
  • Access to the private FB community
  • A special welcome package
  • Office hours to receive support
  • Live monthly virtual gatherings

Your tuition also includes surprises throughout the year, a suggested reading list that will rock your world, and the opportunity to book 1:1 sessions with Mara at a Tend-only price.

Plus, access to exclusive conversations with guest speakers about how they tend to themselves, including wisdom from...

L'Erin Alta Morgan Wade Marcia Baczynski Michelle Shroer Tami Hackbarth Rachael Maddox Melissa Toler Esmé Wang Nona Jordan Annika Martins Sas Petherick Anna Guest-Jelley Alisha Sommer Molly Mahar

Each monthly module contains...

Week 1: Learn
  • Sunday Blessing
  • Video lesson to introduce the month's theme & guide you in tending to your needs
Week 2: Inner Work
  • Sunday Blessing
  • A practice to help you unlearn the stories and beliefs that keep you striving to prove your worth
Week 3: Outer Work
  • Sunday Blessing
  • A practice to help you take tangible, inspired action towards getting your needs met
  • Monthly group call
Week 4: Integrate
  • Sunday Blessing
  • Energy work & intuitive guidance to support your emotional body as you integrate the course material

Sunday blessings are a mix of inspiration, prayer, and channeled writing to energetically support you in integrating the course material and rewriting your internal stories about what you need.

Each month we will focus on a different theme related to identifying, honoring, and advocating for your needs.

Identify

October: Grounding
  • What do I need?
  • Trusting that what you need is okay
  • Valuing yourself & believing that your needs matter
November: Rest
  • Boundaries & saying no
  • Acknowledging your needs before you’re burnt out
  • How to stop feeling guilty for what you need
December: Nourishment
  • Tools & skills for ensuring that your needs are met
  • Tapping into your own personal energy cycle
  • Meeting your needs without justifying or apologizing

Honor

January: Sovereignty
  • Connecting with your inner permission granter
  • Overcoming the barriers that keep you stuck
  • Rewriting your stories about what it means to need
February: Integrity
  • Unearthing & prioritizing your values
  • Creating a flexible structure for getting things done
  • What to do with conflicting needs
March: Trust
  • Your feelings as your greatest teachers
  • Balancing your needs with other people's expectations
  • Rebuilding your trust by following through

Advocate

April: Love
  • How to navigate & maintain healthy boundaries
  • Meeting your needs no matter where you are
  • Confidence in asking for what you need
May: Belonging
  • Belonging to yourself first
  • Honoring your commitments to yourself
  • Tolerating other people’s reactions to you
June: Celebration
  • Feeling comfortable taking up space
  • Advocating for yourself joyfully & powerfully
  • Acknowledging your growth

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Praise for Tend

At the end of Tend, I feel so EMPOWERED!

I have so much more peace and know how to care for myself now. The idea of needs was pretty foreign to me when starting. Now I can name them and meet them. I've learned so much about myself, my reactions to situations, and my warning signals, and I know what I need to be healthy. It's amazing how I feel!
- Laura Y.

What do you need?

You a powerful creator and the only person on the planet who actually knows what you need.

However, if you've been trying to figure out how to take up more space in your life, advocate for your needs in your relationships, and genuinely ENJOY your life but haven't made any headway... this group is for you.

I trust you to know what you need.

If what you really need right now is the support of a coach who gets it and a gorgeous community of humans cheering you on and lifting you up so that you can (FINALLY) bust through those old stories and habits that are keeping you from creating the life you truly want for yourself, Tend has your name all over it.

Early bird pricing available through Monday, 9/16

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Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

tend + 1:1 support

Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

Plus 9 60-minute intuitive coaching sessions

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You want to be witnessed and tended to. I can help.

My name is Mara Glatzel (she/her). I'm an intuitive coach, writer, and Needy podcast host who helps perfectionists and people pleasers reclaim their sovereignty.

I'm also a queer, femme wife and mother of two, recovering control freak, and a human who deeply understands the impulse to relegate my needs to the bottom of a very long to-do list in an attempt to prove my worth.

These days, I take really good care of myself as often as I am able.

I believe that the ultimate act of self-care is rebuilding the chasm in your relationship with yourself so that you can feel seen, heard, and adored, no matter what. I want you to know that you don’t have to over-deliver, minimize your needs, or suffer to earn your space in the world. You can create a relationship with yourself filled with radiant trust and gentle discipline by taking your daily choices off of autopilot.

My intuitive coaching style is supported by skills gleaned from a Masters in Clinical Social Work, energy healing tools acquired through working with the Crystalline Consciousness Technique (CCT), and Reiki. My superpower is saying what you need to hear when you need to hear it and I am here to help you believe in yourself as much as I believe in you. 

Over the last ten years, I have supported thousands of humans in infusing their lives with more ease, rest, and sustainable self-care. 

I created Tend to be a place for you to practice caring for your needs and claiming your rightful place in the center of your life.

I need things. You need things. We need each other.

Tending to your needs is sacredly pragmatic, grounding, messy, and intimate. It is the practice of reinvesting yourself in the routines and rituals that sustain you.

Moving your hips. Flossing your teeth. Speaking your truth. Drinking enough water. Allowing yourself to be fully seen. Receiving. Connecting offline. Wiping down the counters. Finding your breath. Letting love in. Doing the laundry.

This is one of those areas of our lives that we chronically underestimate, believing that we can put our own tending on the back burner endlessly until a “better time” comes along. (We can’t.)

Tending is not the perfect self-care between the pages of glossy magazines that leaves you feeling hollow and unsatisfied.

Tending is highly individualized. It requires taking your needs seriously, devoting yourself to what feels good, and gathering the bravery to receive what you ask for.

Claiming your needs is the deep commitment to treating yourself the way you want to be treated in all of your relationships.

Tending is the practice of recognizing the value that you offer the world when you are well supported and caring for yourself accordingly.


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Praise for Tend

Tend is a gentle but effective training ground for self-care, hosted by the most delicious woman. It taught me new tools and provided a safe, supportive container to practice using these tools. At the end of Tend, I am feeling hopeful. I am now able to say no to social events that I "should" go to when I don't want to or when they don't serve my self-care, get to bed earlier, and find time for pockets of silence in my day.
- Amy N.

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Your Questions, Answered

Do I have time for this? What’s the time commitment?

The #1 reason that your needs aren’t being met right now is because you, for a myriad of honest, real, and vulnerable reasons, are not making them a priority.

In Tend, I will give you the tools necessary to change that reality, while supporting you as you do the work.

On average, this work will take a couple of hours a week.

That said, I think that it is unrealistic to expect yourself to give 100% to your work here every single week for the duration of 9 months. Change comes in fits and starts, and sometimes you will need to take breaks to absorb the big work that you are doing. This offering is designed to challenge and inspire you, but it is also padded with ample integration time.

Give yourself the permission to show up in a way that works for you.

Can you tell me a little bit more about the energy healing work? I’ve never done anything like that before…

I’m so glad that you asked! Energy work is integral to all of my work with my clients. I practice a combination of CCT (the Crystalline Consciousness Technique) and Reiki. This energetic component allows for our work together to be super-charged and radically transformational, as it will clear energetic stories that aren't aligned with your intentions moving forward.

Each Tend module is paired with energy work to support the emotional aspects of utilizing the practical tools that I share. I will facilitate a group energy healing and share the intuitive guidance I receive during the process. This can feel a little foreign for those of us who have never done this kind of work before, but I will create a video of me doing the work and explain each step during the first month of the course.

The energy work component allows us to deeply transform our ability to tend to our needs, as it works to heal and support anything from your past that might be keeping you stuck.

When will the live calls be?

Our community will have a Welcome call on Sunday, September 29th at 11 am Eastern.

Our regular monthly calls will take place on the third Sunday of the month at 11 am Eastern.

(The only exception is the June call, which takes place the 4th Sunday of the month.)

Call dates: 10/20, 11/17, 12/15, 1/19, 2/16, 3/15, 4/19, 5/17, 6/28

The video calls will take place on an online platform, meaning that you will need a computer and a high-speed internet connection to take part. These calls will be a mix of teaching and question answering, with opportunities to deepen your connection with our group.

Monthly calls will be recorded and sent out after we wrap, so don’t worry if you have to miss out.

Am I being selfish if I want my needs to be met?

To be selfish means to be chiefly concerned with one’s own profit or pleasure, a concept that we will be playing with during our time together. But, for now, let’s start here: wanting your needs to be met isn’t greedy. It’s human. It is only by creating an environment where you are well tended to that you will actually be able to be of service to others, and often with more frequency and greater reliability than ever before.

Your desire to be better taken care of does not indicate a lack of respect, love, or appreciation for what you have or the people in your life. In fact, it is the exact opposite. We only want more when we care about the outcome or trajectory forward. We only want more when we are invested in what happens next.

Your hungers are a testament to how much you care about the quality of your life. That is your job, entrusted to you at birth. The responsibility for your quality of life is yours alone, and that responsibility is fueled by both your self-preservation and your desire.

I’ve done everything and nothing has worked - can you guarantee that this will work for me?

As with everything, you will get out what you put into this course. I cannot want it more than you do, nor can I do the work for you. You have to want it. You have to be willing to make yourself uncomfortable. You have to be willing to try to do things differently.

That said, I believe that permission is contagious. I believe that when we pause to really start to take care of ourselves in the way that we are craving, we start to feel really good - and feeling really good begins to take on a life of its own.

This is a practice. I can promise you this - you will never do this perfectly. You are human. You will get lost in being busy. But Tend will give you the insight, tools, and bravery to return to every time you notice that you are deeply needing your own tender care. And I will be there to light the way and pull you up, dust you off, and remind you of who you are and what you are worth as many times as you need to hear it.

What will I need to participate in this group?

To participate in Tend, you need will need a computer with a high-speed internet connection, an email account, and the desire to begin. The course content will be delivered in audio, video, and email format, and can be completed in an hour or two a week.

Additionally, much of our online circling will occur on Facebook. Though it is not required that you join us there, it is highly recommended, as the supportive group environment will enhance your experience of the course.

How does the payment plan work?

If you choose the payment plan, you are agreeing to pay your Tend tuition in 10 equal payments, including your original payment, over the course of 10 months.

Your payments will be automatically deducted from your account monthly on the day that you originally signed up. For example, if you signed up on September 27th, your payments would be automatically deducted each month thereafter on the 27th.

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Praise for Tend

I always thought that I took "good enough" care of myself, but last fall, when I was overwhelmed, I knew I needed more. Working with Mara is like working with a loving friend or sister. I love the way she does things. Tend was challenging (in a good way) and answered my need for more, better, and different ways to meet my own needs.
- Lynne W.

What if something comes up and I need extra support?

At the beginning of each month, I will open up a couple of 1:1 sessions just for Tend participants. If you’re jonesing for an extra layer of support at any point, but don’t want to go full throttle and get 1:1 support through the whole program, you will have an opportunity to scoop one of these up on a first-come, first served basis.

Even if I can begin to make more time for taking care of myself, I have a lot of people in my life who won't accept it or will try to make me feel guilty about it. 

This is a topic that we will address at length.

During Tend, we will talk about strategies for being heard, clear communication, and setting boundaries, but ultimately you are the one who has to decide to stand up for yourself. You get to choose how and when to do this, and most importantly, to do it in a way that is compassionate towards yourself.

The truth is, you are the only one who has to live in your life. Those voices may be very, very loud, and you may have many layers of disbelief and undeserving to excavate in order to feel comfortable resting.

And that can be hard. But it is seriously worth it.

What if I’m scared?

It’s okay to be scared. In fact, you can be both afraid and ready at the same time. Often we feel fear before we embark on something truly great because we know that if we proceed forward, we will be asked to change. Changing can be a scary prospect, particularly if you have been operating the same way for quite some time.

I cannot promise that this work won’t be scary, but I can promise to support you, virtually holding your hand as you show up here in service to having your needs met. And, I can promise that in my experience, support makes all of the difference.

Honestly, prioritizing my needs feels lazy. And weak.

This course is for you.

More questions?

Email me at support@maraglatzel.com and I would be happy to answer them for you.

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Praise for Tend

This was an incredible experience. Tend was as supportive, juicy, and engaging as I had hoped. Mara’s teaching style is so refreshing in a world saturated with go-get-em, you-gotta-hustle messages. If you are thinking about joining Tend, DO IT! It's the best time and money you can spend.
- Aly S.

Stop living in the margins of your life.

Sacrificing your needs isn't the only way to get things done.

Over-delivering isn't the only way for you to feel worthy.

Your needs matter and it is your job to meet them.

Tending to yourself often and imperfectly is what gives you the energy and strength to do everything you want to do with your life. Period.

If you are still reading and having been nodding along this whole time, I would love for you to join us.

xxMara

Early bird pricing available through Monday, 9/16

tend

Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

tend + 1:1 support

Weekly content with prompts, practices & rituals to support you in meeting your needs

Access to our private Tend FB community

Daily prompts & coaching

Q&A office hours

Monthly energy work

Guest speaker library

Monthly virtual gatherings

Plus 9 60-minute intuitive coaching sessions

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Big love for Tend

SARA

Praise for Tend

Tend has truly been one of the most supportive things I have ever done. This course is absolutely not another to do (at all), it is a million reminders that you are the sovereign leader of your life and that you matter. The course, Mara, and community hold you as you shift your beliefs and actions. It is gentle, comforting, soft and so powerful. I didn't conceptualize the course so much as "self-care" but as a guide to truly developing a trusting and loving relationship with myself. A relationship in which I pay attention to how I feel, what I need, and what I want. I also made great steps in learning how to hold myself accountable with love, which feels way better.  I cannot say enough fabulous things about Mara or Tend. I truly loved it and I can feel the impact it has made in my life. I highly recommend this experience to anyone who wants help developing a loving + consistent relationship with themselves, and really anyone who just generally wants to feel better in life. - Sara

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Praise for Tend

Before Tend I was trying to do all the things I was “supposed” to do for self-care, like exercising and meditating and still falling deeper into burnout. Tend helped me figure out that self-care isn’t a list of things that you are supposed to add to your to-do list, but a way of being in the world that puts me ahead of my to-do list and back in touch with what my body really needs. - Jennifer


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Praise for Tend

I feel reset. Tend was well-crafted, deepening, and healing. I am now able to listen to my own needs better, stand up for myself when other people resist my meeting my needs, and forgive myself when I don't listen to my needs.
- Leah N.

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If you are thinking that Tend might be a good “fit” for you, don’t hesitate, because you already belong in Tend just by being a messy, glorious human with needs.  I’ve been working with Mara for a few years now and she is truly a gift to the world— I can’t recommend her podcast, workshops, courses, and website enough. But Tend? Tend is something entirely different and incredible because she creates this space for this circle of like-minded women to gather in and support each other for an entire nine months, and it is MAGIC. 
- Carrie


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Praise for Tend

Everything Mara says just makes sense! Since Tend, I’m feeling more confident and less inhibited, and am more easily able identify to my boundaries and energy leaks. 
- Michelle P.


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Praise for Tend

Tend was an amazing experience. I am so thankful! My favorite part was Mara’s constant presence and availability. Her consistency helped me to grow in self-trust and to be present to myself as she was present to us. If a friend were asking me if she should take Tend, I would say - Don’t wait! Do it now! She is the real deal and she can and will help you! I believe in her. She has professional training and skills in a creative and welcoming environment. Healing and wholeness comes with working with her! 
- Sarah F.

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Praise for Tend

Through Tend, I developed a clear understanding of what my needs actually are, rather than what I think they “should” be or what makes a pretty picture for social media. I came to respect my needs—even the ones that are mundane or less than glamorous—and how I could meet them.

Because of the depth of the material in Tend and the length of the program, I developed sustainable self-care. There was time and space to practice, to return back when I found myself burning out by spending energy on caring for myself in ways that sounded good on paper but didn’t really nourish me.

Most of all, there was Mara, with her vast knowledge, wisdom, and encouragement, which she shared through emails (one of which was so spot-on and awesome that it—on its own—was worth the price of the entire course). Plus, the videos, interviews, and group calls that continually opened the invitation to believe that my needs matter, offered practical tools, and provided open-hearted support.
- Kathryn S.


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Praise for Tend

Tend has been an extra little piece of support and sweet homecoming over the last nine months.
- Cheryl S.


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Praise for Tend

Tend was there for me in one of the hardest and toughest years of my life. When I signed up for Tend, I was wrestling with making myself a priority as I cared for an ill family member. I felt like I had lost myself. I didn't really consciously look at my needs, especially my need for rest.

Now I feel nourished. If you are thinking about signing up for Tend, know that you are worth the investment. Mara is the best of the best coaches available for dealing with all aspects of meeting personal needs, boundary setting, and rest.
- Tanya L.


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Praise for Tend

Tend helped me to learn to check in with myself routinely. The structure of having Mara and the group's support for the nine months really helped to make tuning in become something I know to do regularly now.

I learned to be more flexible in my self-care. I am the type that thinks if I just keep a routine of journaling, meditation, green tea, etc., things will fall into place, but, while all these things are wonderful and supportive, sometimes I need something different or something more. Tend helped me to realize this and to realize that it's okay!

It's very validating just to be in regular conversation with someone like Mara who helps women to see that their needs are important. I think we need to hear that over and over again.
- Nikki S.

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